Contentment

Today is a lazy sort of day.

We are getting ready to head over to the house. Brent and my FIL are already over there working.

We have gotten in the habit of going over to a local walking track (about 1/4 mile from my in-laws neighborhood) each evening after dinner and walking. We generally get over there around 6:45pm and walk for an hour. There are 5 playgrounds there and we reward the kids for being good during the walk with playing for about 15-20min. We walk for about an hour and are home right at 8pm. We hop in the shower, read a book, and hit the sack. It has been a fun ritual and it even gives my in-laws a chance to unwind and share some time together.

Last night, we did not get over there until 8pm. Usually, when the boys play at the playgrounds, they are alone. Last night though, there was a ballgame going on and at one playground there was quite a few kids. We had barely started in our walk, but we stopped and let the boys play about 30 min. They had a great time! We only walked about 30 min when we headed home. We were in the neighborhood when I said, "I could really go for some yogurt!" Brent told me to google TCBY and call and get their hours. It was 9pm. I figured they had closed, but nope, they were opened till 10pm. We turned around and headed across town. The whole way there the boys were cheering and chanting, "I Scream! You Scream! We All Scream For Ice-Cream!!!" Ice-cream or frozen yogurt runs in our family are rare. We are health conscious and it truly is a treat. So, you can imagine our sons' surprise when it is already past bedtime and we declare we are headed for ice-cream. It was a fun treat and a night I will always remember. The night we were the cool parents ;-)

The boys are both getting so big and I am in awe of the new things they do.

Dane is in Bible Study along with me on Wednesday mornings and he is quoting scripture, singing Bible songs, and telling us Bible stories. I am so proud to see him learning and excited to learn. Each Sunday morning, he is so excited to go to church and learn about God and His Son, Jesus. He is turning into a big helper too-- taking his plate to the sink after dinner, teaching and assisting Webb with things, washing himself and brushing his teeth each evening, dressing himself everyday (and choosing outfits I would NEVER choose!! LOL) and always remembering to ask permission for things. I see him growing and changing... maturing and retaining... and I am so proud. I feel overwhelmed with love when I look at him. He is such a precious little boy. It is bittersweet to watch him grow up, but I am so loving this age! He is big, yet little. He still wants to be held and cuddled, but he is so independent and a leader. I am so thankful for my sweet, independent Dane!

Webb is our little booger! He will do anything to make you laugh and boy does he keep us laughing. His newest talent? Farting on demand. It really is hysterical. He will turn beet red, pushing with all his might, when out comes a very manly sound. He and Dane will erupt in laughter and he tries some more. They are sooooo cute together. One of the sweetest things for me is his love and adoration for Dane. He LOVES that big brother. Anything Dane wants, Webb will do or give up. Last night at ice cream, for instance. Dane had finished his and wanted more. He was sort of being naughty with his whining and all when Webb said, "Here you go, Dane" and handed him his bowl so Dane could get his own bite. Dane said, "Thank you, Webb" and handed it back after he got his bite. When Webb got his bowl back he said, "Thank you, Dane". I could have cried right there. I was so proud. He will try anything Dane tries and is just downright sweet. I still stand amazed at the way it is possible to love him just as much as I love Dane. Not more... not less... the same. He is special and he adds such a sweetness to our family. It is also bittersweet watching Webb grow up. He is my baby... but not really. He is 2 and so big! I love watching him grow and change though and each stage he enters becomes my new favorite "Webb" stage! I am so thankful for my funny, loveable Webb!

Our house is coming right along. We bought our tile for our bathroom yesterday and got a fabulous deal on it! Since we did not need much, we were able to shop in the closeout section . We got tile for our bathroom for $0.50 sq ft (some we liked was $4.00 sq ft) and the boys for $1.69 sq ft and both tiles we really like. Our bathroom tile, we only paid for what we needed, but they made us take everything they had. So, technically, we paid like $0.30 sq ft. You just can't beat that. Brent bought everything he would need to lay the tile yesterday and the total was still $100 less than what we had allotted for that expense. We have gone back and forth about paying someone to lay all the floors. We got an AMAZING quote from a man, who knows Brent, for laying the hardwood (about $1.50 cheaper per sq ft to lay it) and are only looking at spending about $2,500.00 for him to lay all the floors of the house. Only is a figurative word because that is a lot of money, BUT... when you consider how much it should cost, that is an amazing deal! Brent was going to do it, but he is sooooo nervous about screwing up $6,500 in floors. I think we have officially decided to pay someone that. It stinks because that is a huge chunk of change we could put towards our (ok... ok... MY) counter tops, but I understand what Brent is saying. Hopefully the floors will be laid or getting laid this time next week (they were supposed to be laid a couple weeks ago, but our sheet rock men got about 2 weeks BEHIND schedule, which put us about 2 weeks behind schedule). After the floors go in, we are looking at possibly another 2-4 weeks of work before we move in! I am so excited.

We also had the fireplace worked on. I really hated that huge hearth that stuck out in a large portion of the living room. I kindly asked my hubby to fix that ;-) He ripped it up and we paid a sweet old man to come fix it. It now sits level with the floor and is the normal size of a fireplace hearth. The only complaint we had about it, was the cement is MUCH darker than the original. He said they no longer make cement in that color. Well, we asked yesterday at the Tile Outlet if there was anything we can do and guess what?? There is! We took home a sample yesterday and love the outcome. You paint the rock and cement with this and it darkens the cement up and brightens up the rock to look new. It still won't be the exact color, but way closer to the same color. So, now we must add that to our list of things to do :-) We also bought our cabinet refinishing kit. We will save about $3000 +/- doing this ourselves. One day in the future we may get new cabinets, but there is nothing wrong with the current ones except they are ugly and outdated. With new counters (EEEK!! I am so excited to have my dream counters and sink!!!) and new appliance and a refurnishing of the cabinets (they will be my dream color)--- I think I will be LOVING my kitchen!!! Seriously, I am sooooooo excited about my kitchen. I cannot wait to move in a cook in my double oven and wash dishes in my big sink!!

The sheet rock men are finally finished which means the painting can be completed! Both bathrooms are being painted today along with some touch up. Tonight, Brent and my plumber BIL will plumb the drains for both bathtubs.


Tomorrow, we head up to Ellijay for the Apple Festival and then we go to a corn maze that evening. It will be a busy and fun day!

Sunday, we try out Sunday School at the new church and then that evening, I am going to a Cooking and Crafting night for ladies. I am making my chocolate chip cookie dough truffles and I am excited to craft and get some new recipes, along with meeting some new ladies!

Well, I think it is time for me to get a move on it. I want to go check out what I am getting Brent for his birthday. I would say, but he has been known to read my blog a time or 2 ;-)

Hope you all have a great day!

Quick-- a funny story. I was nursing Webb at the new house yesterday and he was asleep on the boob. I commented to Brent about how precious he looked. Brent chuckled and said, "Yeah. Real cute. Looks like an overgrown midget at the titty club." Bhahahaha. I laughed until I almost woke up Webb.

I personally think he looks precious and I am still cherishing this time with him.

Product and Hair

I ended the last blog with a promise to tell you about a new product  I am really liking.

You must understand, I am having regular periods  for the first time ince August 24, 2007. I started back after having Dane when he was around 9 mnts old, but I would go about 50 days between periods. Then,  I got pregnant with Webb (after only have a few periods with Dane) and didn't start back until he was 18 mnts. BUT.... they are regular this time. I had forgotten just how UN-fun and what an inconvenience they are.

I had heard lots about the Diva Cup and had even posted a question on FB asking if anyone had used them and what the opinions were, etc. I got lots of feedback and all of it was good. From that, a doula friend private messaged me to see if I would want to try a Mooncup. The Mooncup is pretty much just like a Diva Cup. She got a discount with something and I could get the Mooncup for about $18 with shipping. Dang! I had just paid that at Costco for a box of tampons. I told her to order me one!

Now, what I liked most about the idea of the Mooncup was the fact that I would be saving money. I am thrifty and I do not like spending money on things like tampons. Call me crazy. And you go through sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo many in your lifetime. It is sort of disgusting to think about how much money gets flushed down the toilet, literally.

I had also heard that with the Moon Cup (depending on your flow and I am a light flow kind of gal) that you would not have to change your Moon Cup except for 2-3 times a day. You do not run the risk of developing TSS with this. I loved that! So, on your very light days or towards the end when you can't go without anything, but you feel like you are wasting products, just change in before you go to bed and when you wake up. There is no smell or anything.

Now........ the question I am sure you all have.

Isn't it messy??!?!?!

I will tell you. It takes some getting used to and yes, as you learn to use it, it will be messy. My biggest worry was having to change it in public and having to touch things and whatnot before washing my hands. Well, the beauty is, you change it so rarely that you can plan your outings around that and ensure you are never changing it in public.

Another trick I discovered. I keep baby wipes in the bathroom and in my purse already. BUT... if you don't, I would recommend doing so. You can take a baby wipe, quickly clean it and it truly is not messy. Or, you can pull it out and rinse it each time. I just found I liked the baby wipe method better. You could also buy cloth pads, if you are a heavy flow sort of gal, and wear as a back up and continue to save money.

Ok, I think I may have addressed the issues.

Some of the benefits:

*It is eco-friendly. You will dramatically cut down on waste.
*It is  healthier. The Mooncup is made from soft medical grade silicone and is latex-free, hypoallergenic and contains no dyes, BPA, phthalates, plastic, bleaches or toxins.
Because the Mooncup is non-absorbent, it will not cause dryness and does not disrupt your body’s natural pH levels (35% of the fluid tampons absorb is natural moisture!).
*It is  convenient. The Mooncup holds at least three times as much fluid as the most super-absorbent tampon, giving longer lasting protection on heavier days. And, because it is non-absorbent, it won’t cause dryness when your period is light.
*It is cheaper. The Mooncup will last for years.

Here is what the box looks like.

This shows you how it is to be folded. I will also say, it took one good cycle before it went unnoticed by me. The stick you see at the bottom is the string of your cup. You use that to pull down on. I take the baby wipe and use that to gain some leverage and also so I don't feel dirty. The stick can stick down further than you would like. That was very uncomfortable for me at first, but then I realized I didn't have it in just exactly right. It can take some getting used to. That stick can be trimmed though with some scissors, just not completely cut off.

Here is what it looks like out of the package. I think it holds 2oz. Not completely sure though.


On the website, there is a place with sizing and a way to help you determine size.

This cute little bag comes with it for holding until the next month. You can also keep this in your purse in case it happens while you are out. No one knows what it is and you don't need to bring anything along while you are on your period (except perhaps baby wipes).

In between cycles, you boil the Mooncup to sanitize it and clean it before you store it. Leave it in the boiling water approximately 10 minutes.

Now.... onto the next thing.

I have dyed my hair. All by myself. This was a first and perhaps a last. My husband hates it! I have actually grown to like it. It is different and dramatic-- 2 things I was going for!

Here I am after I applied it all. I was a bit nervous to see the finished hair!

I choose black because.... I wanted different and dramatic.

Here is the finished product.

Before you all start saying how great it looks to try and make me feel nice, I have been told, "It looks way worse in person!" So.... just wait until you see me face to face. Perhaps, by then, it will have faded some. LOL.

I was going to go to a professional and pay whatever I had to to get it fixed (words of my hubby), but then I decided, what the heck. I think I'll leave it! I like it! Who cares if someone else doesn't.

Well, I do believe it is time to start getting ready for Bible Study. I have to fix lunches for the boys so they can go finish painting. I cannot wait to post before and after pics of my house on here. I mean true after pics. New baseboards up, new interior doors, new light fixtures, new appliances, new counters, new fireplace, etc. It is close and I am excited!!!!

See you soon!

BTW, Dane is practically 100% better. The chiropractor said on Monday, his neck lymph nodes are almost completely back to normal and his knot under his arm is gone! The spots in his eyes are still there, but Dr. Ledford said they can take months to leave completely. We now go every 2 weeks instead of every week. Thank you for your prayers. I am pleased to say, they have worked!!! :-) God is so good!

Remember Me

Good morning! This is the last day of my blog challenge. Well, actually, yesterday was. Yesterday was super crazy and busy for me. I cleaned 3 houses. I left at 7:30 am and got home at around 7pm. I still had an hour drive back to Cartersville after all of that. So, needless to say, I was not about to blog :-)

My final question is:

List 10 things you want to be remembered for.

1) Being a submissive, loyal, and selfless wife.
2) Being a loving, fun, and caring mom.
3) Loving the Lord and living the walk I talk about.
4) Being happy and helping others feel happy.
5) Being a good friend.
6) Making my family proud.
7) Having a servant's heart.
8) Forgiving easily.
9) Having a strong character.
10) Being a prayer warrior and having complete faith in God-- in the good and bad times.

The challenge was fun for me. Many days I was forced to have to search deep within myself for answers to questions I had never truly asked myself. 

I hope you feel like you know me better than you did a month ago. Some of you probably like me more while others of you probably like me less. LOL.

Today is a sort of lazy day.... sort of. Brent is gone to a Men's Breakfast at his uncle's church. The boys and I are lounging on the couch. They have eaten breakfast, I have not. I only took 1 Tbsp raw honey + 1 Tbsp raw apple cider vinegar. I am thinking eggs for breakfast? Nothing sounds good this morning. After we are all fed and the kitchen is cleaned up, the boys and I are headed upstairs to begin a chapter book-- Ralph the Mouse. I am hoping that Dane is interested and I can start reading chapter books to him. Then...... I must start laundry!!! The hubby did not do any while I was away and now we have TONS!!!! LOL.  

When Brent gets home, we are going to the new house to workout (our gym is there) and paint some more. I am anxious to see the progress from me being gone! Our pink bedroom wall is completely finished and while I received pictures, you know how seeing it in person is completely different.

Speaking of the gym.... we are debating getting a membership somewhere OR beginning a Brazilian Jiu -Jitsu course at a local place in town. I personally want to do the Jiu-Jitsu. I think it would be incredibly hard and get me in top shape physically. PLUS... since we do have the gym at home, I could still do weights on my own, however, there is no way I could do Jiu-Jitsu on my own. 

Stayed tuned for the next blog. I will be sharing a product that I have come to love with you. Some of you will like it and order it and others of you will not believe I am sharing this on my blog :-) 

Have a wonderful, relaxing Saturday! 

1. List 20 random facts about yourself.
2. Describe 3 legitimate fears you have and explain how they became fears.
3. Describe your relationship with your parents.
4. List 10 things you would tell your 16 year old self, if you could.
5. What are the 5 things that make you most happy right now?
6. What is the hardest thing you have ever experienced? 
7. What is your dream job, and why?
8. What are 5 passions you have?
9. List 10 people who have influenced you and describe how.
10. Describe your most embarrassing moment.
11. Describe 10 pet peeves you have.
12. Describe a typical day in your current life.
13. Describe 5 weaknesses you have.
14. Describe 5 strengths you have.
15. If you were an animal, what would you be and why?
16. What are your 5 greatest accomplishments?
17. What is the thing you most wish you were great at?
18. What has been the most difficult thing you have had to forgive?
19. If you could live anywhere, where would it be and why?
20. Describe 3 significant memories from your childhood.
21. If you could have one superpower, what would it be and what would you do with it first?
22. Where do you see yourself in 5 years? 10 years? 15 years?
23. List your top 5 hobbies and why you love them.
24. Describe your family dynamic of your childhood vs. your family dynamic now.
25. If you could have dinner with anyone in history, who would it be and what would you eat?
26. What popular notion do you think the world has most wrong?
27. What is your favorite part of your body and why?
28. What is your love language?
29. What do you think people misunderstand most about you?
30. List 10 things you would hope to be remembered for?

Love Me or Hate Me

 I think I am getting worse and worse about staying on top of my challenge :-) 30 days is a lot of blogging!

Yesterday, I was to list my love language?

My love language is a close tie between Gifts and Acts of Service.

These are the top 2 ways I show my love. 

Gifts come in first on the Love Language Quiz (that I took years and years ago and then recently when my husband I took a Love Language SS class at church). I LOVE gifts, not only receiving, but also giving. When someone gives me a gift (no matter how small or inexpensive) it shows me they care about me, they were thinking of me, and they want to make me happy. I do not consider myself materialistic in my loves of gifts. It is just me. I also love to shop for others (I think we have covered this during my challenge) and search for that perfect gift for someone. 

Due to the fact we are thrifty and very frugal, sometimes I show love in my other language-- Acts of Service. I show this love at home a lot. I carry most, if not all, of the weight of the household responsibilities and I am ok with that, for the most part (I won't lie and say there are days that it doesn't annoy me or I don't want help). I do the cooking, cleaning, laundry, clean up after meals, taking out the trash, running all the errands bath and bedtime for both boys, pack lunches, I took care of all the animals when we had them, some yardwork here and there, and so much more. I do this because it is a way I can show my family I love them and care about them. If I eat at your house or come over, I don't mind getting my hands dirty (doing anything!). I'll cook, help clean up, fold your clothes, watch your kids. I don't mind and I will do it  because I want to help you and show you love.

Today, I am answering the question: What do you think people misunderstand about you the most?

That I am judgmental. 

I am very, very strongly, out of this world, opinionated and extremely passionate about various things. That does not mean, for one minute, I judge you if you and I disagree or if you do the things I personally think are wrong or feel personal conviction on.

Some things I am passionate and opinionated about: 

1) The Lord and having a relationship with Him 
2) Homebirths
3) Breastfeeding
4) Co-Sleeping
5) The Bible and the things the Lord says are right and wrong
6) Exercising
7) Eating Clean
8) Chiropractic care
9) Holistic remedies 
10) Homeschooling
11) Marriage and the covenant made-- staying pure to your spouse-- and staying together until death
12) Children and being a mom
13) Keeping a clean house
14) Being happy and looking at life in a positive way
15) Being a doula
16) Being a wife
17) The dangers of vaccines and antibiotics
18) Killing innocent babies
19) Being different and set apart in this world (as a Christian). I want everything I say and do to point to the Lord and make people notice I am different. I do not want to participate in activities of this world or that do not bring honor and glory to the Lord (you can probably figure out what I am saying here without me saying it).
20) I think all drug use is wrong.

These are in no particular order of importance.

See.... I could go on and on and on... I am very passionate, about so many diverse topics and definitely opinionated. I believe what I believe and I believe so for very good reasons. I research many many interesting things and develop my beliefs based on what I know, not what someone has told me to believe. If you want you argue these opinions with me, fine, but you will NEVER change my mind on any of them. 

If you think I am nuts for things I listed above or you disagree with all of them, or maybe you do or have done something I listed....I do NOT judge you. I can promise you that will all of my heart. I have done many things I listed before and even had completely different opinion about many of the things.



1. List 20 random facts about yourself.
2. Describe 3 legitimate fears you have and explain how they became fears.
3. Describe your relationship with your parents.
4. List 10 things you would tell your 16 year old self, if you could.
5. What are the 5 things that make you most happy right now?
6. What is the hardest thing you have ever experienced? 
7. What is your dream job, and why?
8. What are 5 passions you have?
9. List 10 people who have influenced you and describe how.
10. Describe your most embarrassing moment.
11. Describe 10 pet peeves you have.
12. Describe a typical day in your current life.
13. Describe 5 weaknesses you have.
14. Describe 5 strengths you have.
15. If you were an animal, what would you be and why?
16. What are your 5 greatest accomplishments?
17. What is the thing you most wish you were great at?
18. What has been the most difficult thing you have had to forgive?
19. If you could live anywhere, where would it be and why?
20. Describe 3 significant memories from your childhood.
21. If you could have one superpower, what would it be and what would you do with it first?
22. Where do you see yourself in 5 years? 10 years? 15 years?
23. List your top 5 hobbies and why you love them.
24. Describe your family dynamic of your childhood vs. your family dynamic now.
25. If you could have dinner with anyone in history, who would it be and what would you eat?
26. What popular notion do you think the world has most wrong?
27. What is your favorite part of your body and why?
28. What is your love language?
29. What do you think people misunderstand most about you?
30. List 10 things you would hope to be remembered for?

Day 25, 26, and 27.

Day 25:

If you could have dinner with anyone in history, who would it be and where would you eat?

 In all honesty, if I could have dinner with anyone in history, it would be my husband's grandmother. I never had the opportunity to know her and love her. I have always heard such wonderful stories about her and I would love to spend an hour or 2 with her, eating and asking her questions about my husband. I guess we would eat somewhere local, in Cartersville, maybe at her favorite place.

Day 26:

What popular notion do you think the world has most wrong?

Hmmm... that is easy. That they can do anything they want, even if it goes against the Word of God and their will be no consequences. It is sad to me and scary for them.

Day 27:

What is your favorite part of your body and why?

My stomach. I am proud that it has carried 2 precious babies for 9 months. I am proud that it is hard and flat and depending on how hard I have been working out, you can see some abs present. Really, no one other than my husband sees it (unless I am in a swimsuit),  but I like that I am comfortable enough to show it.

Yes, I missed 3 days. I wish I could say it was from the craziness of life and how we have been working crazy hours on the house and should be moving in soon, but it is more from laziness. LOL.

We went to Oakland Heights Baptist Church on Sunday. It has been the church I have wanted to visit since before we moved. I came with no idea about which churches to try out. I had to research on my own and pray. That turned out to be a good thing. I truly felt like God was leading us there, even before we moved. Brent did not want to visit there. I don't know why and he really didn't know why (maybe because it was my idea and not his). We went this past Sunday (the first opportunity we have had) and we both LOVED it. Before it even started, Brent told me he really liked it and wanted to come back. I go to CBS there and so the boys are familiar with the children's wing. They both ran right in to class and never looked back. Each song that was sung, brought tears to my eyes. EVERYONE was so friendly and made us feel like they were so genuinely happy to have us there. There was a missionary from London in town and he gave the message. I was bummed to find out we wouldn't hear the Preacher, but man! The missionary man was AWESOME!!!!

He got me to really thinking of where my home is. This earth is not my home. Heaven is. I should live my life with that in mind and that as my focus. He said, "Where do you turn to, or Who do you turn to when things are good or bad? Your answer shows what you worship. What is most important in your life." WOW!!! That is good.

It got me to thinking. Who or what do I worship? Is it money? Possessions? Do I spend my time thinking, "If I could just get this or that then I would be truly happy." Instead of desiring, in the same way, a closer relationship with my Lord and a deeper understanding of His Word? Where do I turn my focus in the good times? Where do I turn my eyes in the hard times? What am I seeking for JOY???? Joy is so much different than happiness. Joy comes from a Source.

 One thing he said that has had me thinking since then was, "God created this whole world in SIX days. Can you believe that? Six days????  It is hard to wrap our human minds around the awesomeness of that fact alone. I haven't seen in person much of the world, but I have visited some beautiful places. I have also seen lots of pictures of beautiful places. Hawaii. Oregon. Northern Ireland. Alaska. California. And more. Certain land marks. Famous locations. Even just the daily sunrise and sunset. The flowers. The mountains. The ocean. Waterfalls. It is all so gorgeous and amazing that He spoke it into existence and that he created EVERYTHING in SIX days! The Bible says that the Lord is preparing a place for me. He has been preparing that place for 2,000 years. If he spent 6 days creating Earth and it is this magnificent, think about what a place will look like that He has been working on for 2,000 years. The beauty is beyond our comprehension. We CANNOT fathom what we will see and experience in Heaven, but we can KNOW it is far more majestic, beautiful, and PERFECT than anything or any place we can see on earth.

That is exciting to me!

All of that to say, I needed that message, the Lord knew I did, and I can't wait to see if this is truly where the Lord wants us.

We are both looking forward to going back this week. I think God may have sent us here for this reason... perhaps :-) It is exciting regardless.

I am headed to work on the house. We were supposed to begin the hardwood floors yesterday, but the sheet rock men took longer than expected and did not finish until Sunday :-/ Oh well, Brent and Freddie went yesterday to start painting ceilings and they are over there now to do the same thing and begin painting walls. I am excited! I have a crazy assortment of colors picked out--- pink, beige, purple, turquoise, yellow, green, and chocolate brown. It definitely matches my colorful personality ;-)

Hope you all have a great week.

Tomorrow I will tell you all my love language.

1. List 20 random facts about yourself.
2. Describe 3 legitimate fears you have and explain how they became fears.
3. Describe your relationship with your parents.
4. List 10 things you would tell your 16 year old self, if you could.
5. What are the 5 things that make you most happy right now?
6. What is the hardest thing you have ever experienced? 
7. What is your dream job, and why?
8. What are 5 passions you have?
9. List 10 people who have influenced you and describe how.
10. Describe your most embarrassing moment.
11. Describe 10 pet peeves you have.
12. Describe a typical day in your current life.
13. Describe 5 weaknesses you have.
14. Describe 5 strengths you have.
15. If you were an animal, what would you be and why?
16. What are your 5 greatest accomplishments?
17. What is the thing you most wish you were great at?
18. What has been the most difficult thing you have had to forgive?
19. If you could live anywhere, where would it be and why?
20. Describe 3 significant memories from your childhood.
21. If you could have one superpower, what would it be and what would you do with it first?
22. Where do you see yourself in 5 years? 10 years? 15 years?
23. List your top 5 hobbies and why you love them.
24. Describe your family dynamic of your childhood vs. your family dynamic now.
25. If you could have dinner with anyone in history, who would it be and what would you eat?
26. What popular notion do you think the world has most wrong?
27. What is your favorite part of your body and why?
28. What is your love language?
29. What do you think people misunderstand most about you?
30. List 10 things you would hope to be remembered fo

Friday and Saturday Post

Good morning! Once again, I am catching up from my post from yesterday.


5 Hobbies:

1) My kids! Anything related to my kids, I love. My favorite thing in the world to do is spend time with them and do things they enjoy. I do not like leaving my kids behind to do things. I don't like for them to spend the night places. I don't like when I need to leave them to make money. I just like to keep them with me. They are my life, my very, most favorite hobby in the world!

2) Working out! I LOVE to workout. I love to lift weights, run, walk, bike, etc. We took the boys for a "power walk" Thursday night. We went in Connie's neighborhood and walked 2 miles. On the way home, we stopped at a neighborhood playground. While the boys played, I used the picnic table to do tricep dips, ab in and outs, inclined pushups and then I used the patio section to do walking lunges. I was getting in 2 of my favorite hobbies at the same time!

3) Reading. I love Christian love stories, Christian mysteries, reading for my Bible study, reading blogs, etc. I try to keep in the Christian area of reading. I have found that when I read others that my mind doesn't stay as pure as it needs to. Generally, there is foul language and unChrist-like things that happen. There is something about reading Christian novels (or series) that keeps me encouraged, uplifted, and in the right frame of mind. I also love reading for my Bible study. I am learning so much and find that I am enjoying the need to dig deeper and research in depth, etc. 
 
4) Shopping. I really and truly do love to shop. Any kind of shopping. I even love to grocery shop. I look forward to it each week. I love to shop for other people. I find sooooo much joy in searching for that perfect gift. I love to shop for certain things I am on the hunt for. I love to shop for decor and renovation pieces. I love to shop for clothes and accessories. 

5) Cleaning. I know, it sounds crazy, but I am a clean freak and I LOVE a clean house. I particularly love to sweep and vacuum. Haven't we had this discussion before?!!? There is something so fulfilling about seeing yucky floors with crumbs and whatnot everywhere, and then having a clean floor!

For today, I am listing the dynamic of my childhood versus now. 

 For obvious reasons, it has changed. 

I think now, my parents and I are friends. Growing up, the were my parents. Not my friends. They had rules and when I broke those, there were consequences. 

My siblings and I argued and fought and tried to get one another in trouble. Now, my siblings and I (although my brother and I are not too close since he moved to TX and we only see each other about once a year) try to help each other out. If there is a problem one of us has, we know we can call up the other one to get it off our chest. When my kids are sick, I can call up my homeopathic brother and get advice on herbs and home remedies. When I am upset about things, I can call my sister and get it off my chest and just have her listening and supportive ear. I hope they feel the same way about me. I am blessed with such an awesome, supportive family. The love we have is unconditional. We may do things that upset, irritate, or flat out anger others each other, but we can always count on the love we have for one another. Isn't that what family is all about? In the end, your friends will come and go, but your family will always be. Soooooo thankful for my family :D
 

1. List 20 random facts about yourself.
2. Describe 3 legitimate fears you have and explain how they became fears.
3. Describe your relationship with your parents.
4. List 10 things you would tell your 16 year old self, if you could.
5. What are the 5 things that make you most happy right now?
6. What is the hardest thing you have ever experienced? 
7. What is your dream job, and why?
8. What are 5 passions you have?
9. List 10 people who have influenced you and describe how.
10. Describe your most embarrassing moment.
11. Describe 10 pet peeves you have.
12. Describe a typical day in your current life.
13. Describe 5 weaknesses you have.
14. Describe 5 strengths you have.
15. If you were an animal, what would you be and why?
16. What are your 5 greatest accomplishments?
17. What is the thing you most wish you were great at?
18. What has been the most difficult thing you have had to forgive?
19. If you could live anywhere, where would it be and why?
20. Describe 3 significant memories from your childhood.
21. If you could have one superpower, what would it be and what would you do with it first?
22. Where do you see yourself in 5 years? 10 years? 15 years?
23. List your top 5 hobbies and why you love them.
24. Describe your family dynamic of your childhood vs. your family dynamic now.
25. If you could have dinner with anyone in history, who would it be and what would you eat?
26. What popular notion do you think the world has most wrong?
27. What is your favorite part of your body and why?
28. What is your love language?
29. What do you think people misunderstand most about you?
30. List 10 things you would hope to be remembered fo

Yesterday along with the Future

I had every intention of blogging last night, but when I logged onto FB while nursing Webb to sleep, I saw all the Debate statuses and there was noooooo way I could go to bed or do anything else other than watch that. As soon as Webb fell asleep, I was curled up on the couch cheering for Romney and SMH at Obama. It was a great debate, other than the fact that Obama stumbled around, stuttered, and was practically trying to come up with answers he could believe in and stand behind like Romney. Yep.... America deserves a President who is confident in what he says and will do what he claims he will do. We already know Obama won't. Ok. Stepping off the soapbox now. If  you are an Obama fan, you are probably no longer a fan of my blog. And that is fine with me :-) I state my honest opinions here.



  Onto the challenge! Yesterday I was supposed to name one super power. Hmmmm. If I could have one super power, it would be to wish money into existence. Is that considered one? There is so much I would do with it, other than go shopping!!!

Seriously, I am not just saying that to sound good, because trust me, this ole girl would be out shopping and decorating the new house. I would put the best of the best in there, my top pick in decor and updates and even add on to the house. I would go buy new clothes and shoes and accessories for me and my hubby and kids. Then, I would pay off all the debt in my family and in our immediate family. I would splurge on everyone all the time. Then, I would tithe generously each week, support missionaries on my own, support various causes that I find important, give to the needy, put up random homeless people in hotels with new clothes and fresh food. I would buy children clothes and shoes whose parents cannot afford them. I would go on and on. And believe me, I can shop and I never drop!!!! I would have a lot of fun with that super power!!!

For today, where do I see myself in 5, 10, and 15 years?

In 5 years, I will be 30, I see myself with 3 (or 4--- fingers crossed, fingers crossed!!!!) children. I see me homeschooling, gardening, going to the EMS station to see my hubby (he should be a paramedic by this time) and have lunch with him, taking awesome vacations field trips on a monthly or bimonthly basis (Thank you "Kelly" day with EMS-- my hubby will get 5 days off in a row once a month), going to Bible Study and homeschool support groups, watching my children wrestle or perform in karate, just being a wife and a mom. I hope and pray my doula business has grown in the Cartersville area and that I am attending a birth a month (that will pay our new mortgage with some left over! Heck yeah!) or a birth every other month. The things I already do and love so much. My kids will be older and more self sufficient. I see me teaching them and training them, praying with them and for them, and just enjoying this life where I am already too blessed.

In 10 years, Oh my goodness. I will be 35! And I will for sure have a 14 year old and a 12 year old and possibly a younger one (or 2--- fingers crossed, fingers crossed!!!!). I expect that in many ways, my life will be crazier than it already is. They will have things they want to be involved in, places they want to go, people they want to see, etc. Obviously, I will keep a limit on some of those things, but hey, that is the beauty of homeschool, I get to let them pursue interests and hobbies they care about the most and I plan on utilizing that benefit. I will be enjoying life with my husband pursuing his dream and thriving, my boys growing up and maturing, and me living the dream. Who knows, by this time, maybe I will have pursued something that interests/intrigues me-- sewing/quilting. Something I currently know NOTHING about. I can't even sew on a button for crying out loud. But I want to be able to do that and more. Maybe I will have the opportunity to in 10 years. 

In 15 years, EEEEEK!!!!! I will be 40!!! I see myself still working out on a consistent basis and being in as good of shape as I am now... perhaps even better! I plan to age gracefully ;-) I will have a 19 year old and a 17 year old (maybe we will decide to have another baby!! Either number 4 or 5! LOL). I suppose I will be adjusting to life with a child no longer living with us. Maybe Dane will be away at college pursuing God's will for his life or maybe he will still live at home and go to a local school. I will have another one on the verge of leaving the nest, finishing up high school, preparing for graduation. My throat is closing up as I think about this and tears are coming to my eyes. I cannot imagine how this will feel. I am sure among the sadness and nostalgia that is sure to come, I will feel pride and happiness at the men they have turned into and excitement for the next stage and chapter of life. My husband will be 46 (I hope he is still alive at that age. JK) and I see us enjoying one another. Cherishing the days with our children who are still at home. I see us still working out together, going on weekend trips together, just the two of us, snuggling up to watch old home videos at night and talking about when our babies were young and the days seemed long and the nights seemed longer. We will think back and recall happy memories, funny occurrences. I'm sure we will rehash the story of "us" a time or two, like we do now. I'm sure above all, we will be happy, content, and more in love with each other than we are now.

Thinking about the future brings on so many emotions. I am grateful for my life, blessed beyond measure, and excited about seeing where I am in 5, 10, and even 15 years.

For an update on Dane, we went back to the Chiropractor yesterday, his lump is almost completely gone. His lymph nodes in his neck are still quite swollen. We continue on with the black walnut and probiotics and go back to the chiropractor on Monday. Thank you for all the kinds words you had after my last blog and for all the prayers :-) You guys are great!

Make it a great Thursday! 

1. List 20 random facts about yourself.
2. Describe 3 legitimate fears you have and explain how they became fears.
3. Describe your relationship with your parents.
4. List 10 things you would tell your 16 year old self, if you could.
5. What are the 5 things that make you most happy right now?
6. What is the hardest thing you have ever experienced? 
7. What is your dream job, and why?
8. What are 5 passions you have?
9. List 10 people who have influenced you and describe how.
10. Describe your most embarrassing moment.
11. Describe 10 pet peeves you have.
12. Describe a typical day in your current life.
13. Describe 5 weaknesses you have.
14. Describe 5 strengths you have.
15. If you were an animal, what would you be and why?
16. What are your 5 greatest accomplishments?
17. What is the thing you most wish you were great at?
18. What has been the most difficult thing you have had to forgive?
19. If you could live anywhere, where would it be and why?
20. Describe 3 significant memories from your childhood.
21. If you could have one superpower, what would it be and what would you do with it first?
22. Where do you see yourself in 5 years? 10 years? 15 years?
23. List your top 5 hobbies and why you love them.
24. Describe your family dynamic of your childhood vs. your family dynamic now.
25. If you could have dinner with anyone in history, who would it be and what would you eat?
26. What popular notion do you think the world has most wrong?
27. What is your favorite part of your body and why?
28. What is your love language?
29. What do you think people misunderstand most about you?
30. List 10 things you would hope to be remembered for

Day 20

Good afternoon!





We have had a fun and busy day already. Each Tuesday morning, we go to story time at the local Library. It is so much fun. We do songs, stories, and crafts. My boys really look forward to going and they love seeing their cousin Brooks there.

Today, is day 20 of my blog challenge. Do you feel like you know me better now?? LOL. I hope you don't feel like my husband does, like you know too much about me.

 3 Significant Memories from my childhood:

1) I remember being at my Gran and Boppa's house. My little sister, Amanda, was always right there by my side and we loved to go over there. We would play outside, in the bedrooms, and in the kitchen. We always loved to "cook". Sometimes, it would be for real because Gran always was patient and willing to let us help, other times, it would be pretend. Gran would let us pull out all her pots and pans, utensils, bowls, etc. and "cook". We made quite the mess and I'm sure we were also entertaining. I have some of the most fond memories of being at my grandparents. Once they moved to the farm, I would go down there and play school bus. I would get on the riding lawn mower and drive all over the yard picking up kids and dropping them off at school or home. I also loved to help work at the farm. I wanted to get my hands dirty and do something! Good memories :-)

2) I remember our old house, back in Brainered. I think can think of so many specific memories there. We had this tire swing out back tied to this HUGE tree (or so it seems in my mind). We would climb the tree to the roof of a shed (I was 4 years old people! Talk about brave parents!) and we would jump on the tire swing and swing off. There was also a tree house in a big tree out front. I loved getting up there. We lived there for the blizzard of '93 and I remember going to our neighbors house. They had built a real live igloo. It was awesome. I remember our elderly neighbors. My dad would also whisper, "Say 'Hey you Old Goat' ". Amanda and I would do it and laugh as they acted like they couldn't believe we had said that. Good memories... once again.

3) I remember my dad laying and praying with me and my sister each night. Every night after dinner and bath time (and a full day of work for my dad), he would hike up the stairs and lay in our bed with us. We would sing songs, laugh, and pray. His favorite song in the whole world for us to sing was, "I want to marry daddy when I grow up." It was during this special time daddy would talk to us about Jesus and Heaven. One night when I was snuggled up next to my dad, I told him I wanted to ask Jesus in my heart. Dad knew I was young (5 years old) and he never wanted us kids to feel pressured. He wanted us to do it for our sake, not to please him. He told me to wait a few nights and if I still wanted to, he would lead me through a prayer.  A few nights later, I mentioned it to dad again. He knew I must be sincere and he led me through a prayer where I admitted that I was a sinner and I knew Jesus had died on the cross to pay for my sin. I asked Jesus to forgive me and to come live in my heart and to help me be more like Him and always live my life for Him. I was 5 years old, but I meant every word. Yes, I have such good memories from my childhood. 

I am thankful that my childhood memories are all happy. I had a mom and a dad who loved me with all their hearts. They raised us in a Christian home where we went to church and we were taught right and wrong. There were always consequences for our wrongs, but unconditional love no matter what we had done. My brother, sister, and I are blessed. So many children are raised in homes where the name of Jesus is never mentioned. Where church is an unknown place. Where the parents drink excessively and take drugs. Where mom and dad fight and holler and scream and physically and verbally hurt one another. Homes where they feel alone and unloved. I am sooooo thankful my home was not like that. I pray I can provide the same sort of safe haven they provided us with to my children.

Thanks, mom and dad for such a lovely childhood! I have the best memories!
 

1. List 20 random facts about yourself.
2. Describe 3 legitimate fears you have and explain how they became fears.
3. Describe your relationship with your parents.
4. List 10 things you would tell your 16 year old self, if you could.
5. What are the 5 things that make you most happy right now?
6. What is the hardest thing you have ever experienced?
7. What is your dream job, and why?
8. What are 5 passions you have?
9. List 10 people who have influenced you and describe how.
10. Describe your most embarrassing moment.
11. Describe 10 pet peeves you have.
12. Describe a typical day in your current life.
13. Describe 5 weaknesses you have.
14. Describe 5 strengths you have.
15. If you were an animal, what would you be and why?
16. What are your 5 greatest accomplishments?
17. What is the thing you most wish you were great at?
18. What has been the most difficult thing you have had to forgive?
19. If you could live anywhere, where would it be and why?
20. Describe 3 significant memories from your childhood.
21. If you could have one superpower, what would it be and what would you do with it first?
22. Where do you see yourself in 5 years? 10 years? 15 years?
23. List your top 5 hobbies and why you love them.
24. Describe your family dynamic of your childhood vs. your family dynamic now.
25. If you could have dinner with anyone in history, who would it be and what would you eat?
26. What popular notion do you think the world has most wrong?
27. What is your favorite part of your body and why?
28. What is your love language?
29. What do you think people misunderstand most about you?
30. List 10 things you would hope to be remembered for

Day 19 and Dane

 Day 19 is the day for me to say where I would live if I could live anywhere and why. 

I mean, I have never been here, but I have seen plenty of pictures. I would live in Hawaii. Brent and I are planning to take a nice anniversary trip there one year... maybe 5 or 7 or 10. We shall see where we are with our children and financially!! I would love to live somewhere tropical and the views there are breathtaking. I would also prefer to live right on the beach with a sliding door in my bedroom that was facing the beach. I would go to sleep every night with it opened listening to the sounds of the waves and the wind. Ahhhh. Take me there now!

So, I have been asking prayer for Dane. It is such a long story, but I guess I must tell it at some point and time.

It all started back in late July/early August. 

Dane would complain when we picked him up that we had hurt his "owie" (we don't call them "boo boos" for obvious reasons--- that is what our nursing babies call my breasts!). The first time he said that, I questioned him about what he was talking about? He pointed to his armpit. I apologized and kept on. He continued to complain about his "owie" from time to time. One time, I even looked under there and saw nothing. I just assumed he had pulled a muscle or fallen funny. I didn't really know and I wasn't very concerned. I am not the type of mom who freaks out or worrys.

Well, he complained so often, that we all knew about his "owie" spot. We did forget about it, but he would be quick to cry out in pain if we hit it. Still... no big deal in my mind.

3-4 weeks after he first complained to me, my parents were keeping the boys while I was helping my friend paint. When I got home, mom told me that Dane had a knot in that place under his arm he always complained about. I was instantly concerned. She said he and my dad had been playing that night and Dane burst into tears from pain. That is when they saw it. I called Dane into the living room and pulled up his shirt to see this.

For a mom who doesn't freak out or worry, I felt my heart drop. I think we all know what we associate a lump with. 

Cancer.

I took pictures and instantly called Brent. I was  very afraid. I knew he had been complaining of this area for 3-4 weeks. This was a Friday night and I was spending the night in Ringgold. The next morning, it looked the same. On Monday, I called a local pediatrician in town. They said it could take up to 48 hours to change the PCP with the insurance company and with what was going on, they thought I should take Dane to a children's walk-in clinic in Kennesaw that day. 

So, I went when they opened up. I had such a great experience. They were so kind and helpful and made Dane feel so safe. They did blood work and we waited there for the results. They came back quickly. His WBC was 9,000 (normal) and there was no infection in his blood stream. His eyes, throat, ears, etc looked good and not infected or inflamed. His liver and spleen were not enlarged or swollen. No other lymph nodes were swollen and no recent sickness/fever/nausea/etc. The Dr. was a bit perplexed. He wrote us a prescription for an antibiotic. He said Dane would need to take that for 10 days and then follow up with his pediatrician a week from then. He said it should clear up nicely and if it did not, we would do an ultrasound.

You know me. I DO NOT do antibiotics unless I think they are absolutely necessary. I felt like this was a time and place that was absolutely necessary for Dane to take the meds. We had to get to the bottom of this. Once I knew what we were dealing with, I planned to begin treating is holistically, but until then, I was clueless. Dane has never, ever been on a medicine or antibiotic. It was not an easy decision, yet it was. I made plans to follow up with the same walk-in clinic the next Monday and in the mean time, if it grew or changed at all (diameter, color, etc) we were to take him right to ER.

During that week, Dane took the meds with no problem. The knot NEVER changed except on Saturday. It got bigger and almost blue/purple in color. It was Saturday, so I knew we would be going back on Monday. I didn't worry too much.

 Monday, we were covered in prayer. We get there and the doctor is perplexed again. He said he expected the meds to work. 

He called a surgeon at Scottish Rite to get some guidance. Between the two of them, he then decided to write us another prescription and Dane would take this for 10 days. It would be nasty tasting and he would need to take it 3x a day for 10 days.  It would also really upset his stomach. If in the meantime, it was too hard on his stomach, then I would take him to Scottish Rite ER for ultrasounds. If by day 3 or 4 the lump was the same, we would go to Scottish Rite ER for ultrasound. If he could stomach it.... and IF it did work, he would take meds for all 10 days.
 
This momma was not happy. I don't like my child being used as a guinea pig. This might work... this might not... we will see... we don't know.... Hmmmm... let's try this... then try this.... NOPE!!!!

 I politely asked them how they felt about us forgoing the new antibiotic all together and us just going on to Scottish Rite for ultrasounds. I explained my reasoning and the kind nurse (mother herself) said she completely understood my reasoning and said that would work just fine.

I don't have a problem giving antibiotics when they are ABSOLUTELY NECESSARY... but to just give them to see if they might work... I have a huge problem with that. Why not find out what is causing this? What is the problem? The root of this lump??? 

We went to Scottish Rite and we were there for 3 long hours. I was alone, of course. They prepped Dane for an IV. When I asked why the nurse kindly said, "Mam, we are preparing him for an IV. The doctor seems to think he will need one." I was scared. Need an IV?!?!?! Why??? What is going on? Where is my husband? I wanted details!

When we get to the room, this VERY rude ER doctor comes in. He acts as though he has way more important things to be dealing with than a scared mom and a little boy who's underarm has been hurting for over a month. 

He harshly tells me I did not see a real doctor when I took Dane to the walk-in clinic He glares at me with a smirk and says, "My first recommendation would be to actually find your son a DOCTOR." 

Wow. You mean someone like YOU? No. I'd rather NOT. 

He asks what meds he had been on. Of course, I  don't know bc I wasn't planning on driving to the ER on this day. He rudely states, "Mam. It is crucial that I know what meds he was on." He asks for color, dosage given, etc. and then decides he knows what Dane was taking. He then tells me that that would NEVER work for what we are dealing with and rolls his eyes with disgust. He tells me Dane's entire body is full of infection (interesting since the blood work showed no infection and all he is doing is standing in the room looking annoyingly at us) and that he will write a prescription that will actually WORK. 

I ask him what is wrong with Dane and he says, "Inflamed lymph nodes". 

Oh wow. You came to that conclusion by walking in the door and glancing at him?

I was MAD. I said, "So, the clinic sent us here for an ultrasound? Are we not going to have one?" He laughed a little and said, "There is no reason for an ultrasound. Dane can take this medicine for 10 days (same meds the walk-in clinic wanted him to take) and then if that doesn't work, we might or might not do an ultrasound. I said, "Is there any other option?" He said, "No." I said, "Will this work?" He said, "I can't tell you yes or no. All we can do is try. Any more questions?" I smiled and said, "No."

He left the room and I made up my mind right there. Nope. I wasn't giving Dane any more trial medicines. I prayed the whole way there as did MANY other people (numerous friends and family were praying and had him added to churches prayer chains). I truly believe if it was something horrific, the Lord would have allowed us to find out right then and deal with it. After all, we were at Scottish Rite. The most amazing hospital for children. A place with real doctors. 

We left and the whole way home I prayed. I had researched honey water awhile back. When you mix honey with about a half a cup of water, a chemical reaction takes place resulting in the creation of hydrogen peroxide. Them most powerful natural antibiotic. It doesn't matter what website you are reading about honey water on, they all tell you the same thing. I find it very interesting. 

I had also just researched honey a few weeks previously and discovered that honey that is not translucent (has pieces of the comb, pollen, and other things) it is the most healthy and provides the best benefits. I had some at home. I also had some raw apple cider vinegar with the mother inside. I know that helps fight inflammation and infection. 

Time to make up some hokey medicine, as my husband calls it.

The way I saw it, my meds might or might not work. Same as the antibiotics. At least mine are safe and side-effect free. It will hurt nothing even if it doesn't help. I am not filling his body up with CRAP!

I came home and threw out the old prescription.

I started giving Dane that mixture twice a day (half a cup of water, 1 Tbsp honey, 1/2 teas apple cider vinegar). We continued to cover him in prayer. I had also heard of this witch doctor chiropractor in Calhoun. He sounded amazing. I called and made him an appointment. There were no openings until the following Monday. I took it and continued what I said above. Praying more so than ever before. 

The lump was down in size in 2 days.  The first time it had gotten smaller since it appeared.

Today, we went to the chiropractor. I had heard the wait could take up to an hour. We waited, and waited. I filled out the most detailed info sheet on Dane. The boys were not patient or obedient. It was a small waiting room and packed full. I wanted to leave more than one time.

Finally, we got called back.  The Dr. was reviewing his sheets. He turned around and came to Dane and asked me about him to sort of clarify what he had read. Then, he feels Dane' neck. He looks at his lump. He looks at the other arm pit. He looks at him. About a minute had passed since we waked in the room. He turns to me and says, "Your son has a parasite." I was shocked. "Really???" I asked. He said, "Yes, look at the whites of his eyes. See those dark spots? Those are parasites." I look and yes, I see about 4 on the white of his eye down at the bottom. He says, "All of his lymph nodes are really swollen." I am shocked again. All the MD's said his lymph nodes were not swollen at all except for this one lump. He tells me to feel. Yes. They are. Why hadn't I felt on my own before?  Why had I taken the doctors at their word? Down his neck is tons of ridges and bumps and lumps. You can even look and see his swollen neck. He asks if Dane's throat has been hurting? Yes. He has complained of that. He said that many times parasites are misdiagnosed as strep. He said kids get antibiotic after antibiotic to treat strep and it never gets better because they are treating the wrong thing. He says parasites in kids are becoming more and more common and now they are saying kids need to be treated once a year just to be safe. Kids are getting them because kids just aren't clean. They play in dirt and all sorts of nastiness and put their fingers in their mouth. Heck, it's a wonder my kids haven't had a parasite before now. I am the furthest thing from a germophobe there is. He said we caught this parasite in time. A boy had just been hospitalized for the same thing because his throat was swelling up so much he could barely breath. He continued to be misdiagnosed until the finally got it right. Dr. Ledford said, "The parasites are in there, clearly wanting out. What is good, I can fix it." He asked if he had a rash on his groin. Come to think of it, on his bottom (on either side of his crack) he has had this rash for probably 4 months or longer. I, once again, wrote it off as nothing thinking it was probably a heat rash. I tell him and he says, "That is yeast. This parasite wants out. It is trying to come out and can't. Now it is trying to come out of his lymph nodes. It will keep trying and making him sicker and sicker until it finally gets out. You came to me in time. I will drain his lymph nodes and fully adjust him. He will be lethargic and feverish the rest of the day. Then, I want you to go to the herb shop down the road and get Black Walnut for this parasites and a probiotic. I want to see you back on Wednesday. In the meantime, if he starts acting or looking crazy, call me ASAP." 
  WHAT??? You can tell me all of that that quickly, yet these MD's were clueless? Perplexed even.

What is amazing about all of this... Our cow, Betsy had a bad parasite. We had to quit milking her for a long time because of it. The boys were all in her water and feed. I KNOW that is where he caught it. He has had this thing for close to 4 months... if not longer.

He adjusted him and commented on how strong Dane is. Physically. He said that is great because the parasites haven't been able to fully attack him yet. He said he is so overall healthy, the Black Walnut should work super quick. He said in 10 days I should notice a significant change, but more than likely, before that because of his health.

I left feeling soooooooo good. Once again, I went with my instinct and it was right. I love the way God gifts mom's with this super power, unknown to anyone other than a mom herself. Mom's just know sometimes.

I am so happy. He took the meds with no problem.

I am so thankful God led me there and that we now have this amazing chiropractor to go to.

THANK you for the prayers. Now you know why I was asking for them. 

I will keep you updated!


1. List 20 random facts about yourself.
2. Describe 3 legitimate fears you have and explain how they became fears.
3. Describe your relationship with your parents.
4. List 10 things you would tell your 16 year old self, if you could.
5. What are the 5 things that make you most happy right now?
6. What is the hardest thing you have ever experienced?
7. What is your dream job, and why?
8. What are 5 passions you have?
9. List 10 people who have influenced you and describe how.
10. Describe your most embarrassing moment.
11. Describe 10 pet peeves you have.
12. Describe a typical day in your current life.
13. Describe 5 weaknesses you have.
14. Describe 5 strengths you have.
15. If you were an animal, what would you be and why?
16. What are your 5 greatest accomplishments?
17. What is the thing you most wish you were great at?
18. What has been the most difficult thing you have had to forgive?
19. If you could live anywhere, where would it be and why?
20. Describe 3 significant memories from your childhood.
21. If you could have one superpower, what would it be and what would you do with it first?
22. Where do you see yourself in 5 years? 10 years? 15 years?
23. List your top 5 hobbies and why you love them.
24. Describe your family dynamic of your childhood vs. your family dynamic now.
25. If you could have dinner with anyone in history, who would it be and what would you eat?
26. What popular notion do you think the world has most wrong?
27. What is your favorite part of your body and why?
28. What is your love language?
29. What do you think people misunderstand most about you?
30. List 10 things you would hope to be remembered for